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前段时间在网上看完了〈美人心计〉,最深的一个感受是:做父母的很多时候都不知道孩子真正想要的是什么!那种父母与子女之间的不理解、误解,真是令人痛心啊!
前天又看到一篇英文文章,幸福的源泉。
These eight items were listed as not being of major importance to maintaining lasting happiness (the eight delusional desires for prosperity):
1.wealth
2.physical appearance
3.age
4.power/influence
5.children
6.possessions
7.fame
8.education
These eight items were listed as of major importance to maintaining lasting happiness (the eight keys to happiness):
1.a feeling of being in control of one’s life and one’s choices. Being adaptable to experiences and outcomes.
2.a relationship, partnership, and lasting commitment.
3.a satisfying and rewarding job or career.
4.good friends.
5.leisure. time to travel, retreat or relax. Private time to be alone, and authentic time to share with others.
6.exercuse, exercising in any style, degree of effort, or time duration that you need or want.
7.sense of feeling connected to God. Having an avenue to express and experience Spirituality.
8.hope.
看到“孩子”时,我也心头一震。
我们往往犯的错误是不是把“孩子”和“希望”混为一体呢? |
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