选择的艺术

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看了，挺喜欢的。

Sheena是斯坦福社会心理学的博士。主要研究选择。教MBA和EMBA的课程的。

Considered one of the world's experts on choice, Sheena has recently written her own book, The Art of Choosing. In the book she explores topics such as why choice is powerful and where its power comes from, the ways in which people make choices, the relationship between how we choose and who we are, why we are so often disappointed by our choices, how much control we really have over our everyday choices, how we choose when our options are practically unlimited, whether we should ever let others choose for us, and if so, whom and why. Sheena's book has already gained much recognition, including being chosen as a finalist for the Financial Times Business Book of the Year 2010 award and being ranked #3 on the Amazon.com Best Books of 2010: Business & Investing Top 10.

爱无言

东西方文化的不同让中国人美国人在这一点上都在极端，很多美国人选择的忘记了选择的初衷只是选择，很多中国人害怕选择不敢去选择。

最关键的地方还是想要怎样的生活并且去面对和执行的能力，这种能力里包括勇气胆量智慧人际等等。人其实是非常害怕自由的，自由意味着自己完全承担依赖自己，这对很多中国人来说是很难的，我们习惯于依赖一个群体或者一个家庭的。我现在才意识到我有多怕这种自由，但有多怕就会让自己多勇敢去面对。